Actually I should refine the topic more clearly
The title should be "Why I dont like talking to some type of people"
The type of people I find it hard to talk to:-
1) The giggler
What make is difficult is that they giggle at everything you say, even the serius part of the conversation. It really distracted me. It make me wonder " why is this person giggling so much? Do I left my zipper open or what?"
1) The demoralizer
Whenever I have conversation with this type of person, I will feel worthless and despair. It's like they are a dementor.huhu
Here's are a sample of a situation with a demoralizer:
HIM/HER : Weh AT..aku dapat jadi pengerusi kat blablabla..Dah tu aku dapat jawatan dekat lalala..Then En TutTutTut mintak aku tolong dia buat projek EhemEhemEhem..Hang best la..tak de kerja
You see..You see..Can you sense the demoralize effect on the sentence.
3) The talk-random topic-to-cover-the-fact-that-you-came-to-ask-for-help
Sorry its a bit small. click the picture to zoom
4) The arkward silencer
Talking is a two-way communication. When the other end doesn't provide anything, it will eventually lead to arkward silent where you will pretend to look at you phone while he look around at the passer-by.
5) The competitor
"No what you say is all wrong. I am always right".
Have you ever talk to this type of person? You try to convey your opinion but the person rejected it immediately because it is different from his opinion?
6)The Yes man
When I first talk to this person, I feel confident as we have the same mindset. But after a while I soon to realize this person is just agreeing to what I'm saying but actually in his mind, he disaprove it.
Hmm..Actually,All the criteria I mentioned above is the one I am having..huhuhu.. I realized my weakness and I'm trying to fix these problem.
In conclusion, I like talking in general. It is the most effective way to convey information and emotion.
p/s: This post is requested by Ariffah
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4 comments:
cool post (:
yup, starting a conversation is one thing, trying to stay in one is another.
but can u please explain a bit more on the 6th criteria..cmne ek yg kita boleh sedar yg dye sebenarnya x setuju pun apa yang kita cakap walaupun depan2 dia setuju je..?
terima kasih (:
well..people talks..lama2 kita akan tahu jugak apa yang orang lain cakap belakang kita..
Lagipun, AT sekali skala saja try cakap something yg tak masuk akal, kalau dia iyakan jugak, nampak sangat dia palsu.plastik.huhu
sekian
hoho..coolio.
thanx tulis jugak. (:
banyak yg tertulis tu.slalu terjadi.hehe
hehe..true that
selalunya AT yang terbuat.
ni tulis ni,nak ingatkan diri supaya tak buat lagi
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